Anonymous asked: i just need someone to listen for once.
my family is falling apart and i have no idea what to do :( i used to be sooo rich and life was great but now we are on the break of losing our house AND i have a feeling that brother is getting back on drugs and hes lying to me about. he means the absolute world to me and if i ever lost him i would never be the same. he may be a complete asshole but hes my brother/bestfriend. speaking of bestfriends mine know practically none of my problems, i hide behind a smile cause i know they wont understand theyll think im depressing and that i just need to cheer up. they all live there perfect lives, rich, great boyfriends, their main problems are their looks. and i know you may say " if there your bestfriends they will understand and listen to your problems". And i feel a little hypocritical cause i use to have all of that! and now im complaining about them just out of pure jealousy. Id rather tell everyone on tumblr anon than tell my bestfriend that my life is falling apart. Which makes me feel like a horrible friend. Now i dont know what your gunna respond. and frankly i dont care if you dont know what to say. i just needed to tell someone.
ps. i cant spell and have horrible grammar, sorry.
Hi I Can;t Spell Right And Have Horrible Grammar,
You are smart. I can tell. You give insight. You’ve thought it through. Life isn;t over and you’re friends might not understand everything. Having to live in a new way, personally, but hold up on the outside is tough. I know that myself. It’s going to get harder and harder, though. You’re going to continue to feel depressed, and there is serious damage that you could do to yourself if you push aside the fact you you aren’t in the financial state you were in. I think you should really go and tell your friends. Tell them that you’re not rich and wealthy as you are. And that things are tough. And tell them that you don’t want them to try to just cheer you up because that’s something that can’t happen. But tell them how you feel. Deep down, about feeling jealous, and realizing what it’s like now without the money you used to have. It isn’t healthy to keep this bottled up. You are not a horrible friend. You are being human. It’s easier to tell strangers than your close friends whats wrong because you don;t have to feel shame and pressure. It’s how we are. And with your brother, drugs are serious and you’ve got to find a way to catch him if you suspect him. You need to tell somebody, maybe at school or wherever. If it’s serious and he is denying it, then you need to et him help. You love him, and you said he is your best friend. If you go to outside help, he will be upset, furious maybe, not to be too subtle or overdramatic, but you need to remember that no matter how bad you might feel for whatever you do, you are doing the right thing, because you are helping to save his life from drugs. He won’t understand it now, and he might not for a while, but you need to remind yourself that he has an addiction to drugs and it is serious and that no matter how much you want his friendship, even more important is your love.
I’m sorry I didn’t have as happy of news and advice as normal, but I do hope you are happy and everything works itself out, because we al deserve happiness.
Lots of love,
P.S. - If you wouldn’t mind. I have something else I would like to talk to you about if you send me a question without going anonymous (not to be posted, just so I can send you something privately). If you don;t want to it’s okay, I have told you all of the most important things and as much as I could try right now already above this. Hope it works out, and you can be happy. We all deserve to be happy. Always come back if you have any other questions. I’m always here to listen and help out my best.